Collecting as a Hobby: a Waste of Money and Space?

by Lori Deschene

We’ve been heavy-handed with the whole de-clutter theme recently, and for good reason. Just like too much food or liquor makes you sick, too much stuff directly affects your mental health—and also your wallet since you’re paying to maintain and store it. But what does that imply about collecting as a hobby? Is it just a waste of money and space, or are there any benefits to keeping an ever-growing stash of GI Joes in your attic? That depends on what you get from the process and what you do with the end result. Let’s start with what you get.
 
Collecting:
Reinforces passions People buy things they don’t really care about all the time—maybe to satisfy their ego and image, or just because there’s a big sale going on and walking away seems wasteful. Collecting starts with excitement. Could be comic books remind you of the happiest time in your childhood, or maybe you first started amassing license plates when your Dad was alive and you fixed up old cars together.
 
Flexes mental muscles Unless you’re content to purchase 50 of the same exact Barbie doll, you’ll need to do some research to find which things will enhance your collection. If you’re really clever, you might even find some gems for practically nothing. In the process, you could learn a lot about different eras, countries, cultures, lifestyles, and more.
 
Gives you the thrill of the hunt Most discretionary spending satisfies a perceived emotional need. That’s why advertisers use sex, humor, and fear to market the benefits of their products; so you’ll justify buying whatever non-necessity they’re pedaling. For collectors, the thrill of seeking and finding a difficult-to-attain or unique piece is generally the main motivation—and that comes entirely from you, not your peers or the media.
 
Teaches you to be resourceful You could limit your search to the local mall and eBay, but you might as well collect soda cans or hang nails if that’s how you’re going to do it. Most collectors check out yard sales, auction houses, flea markets, second-hand retailers—maybe even junk yards, hence the saying “One man’s trash is another man’s treasure.”
 
Can be lucrative Many people grow emotionally attached to their stuff—for the reasons listed above—and wouldn’t think twice of selling it off. But let’s face it; if you collect something for years, it will eventually take over your space, turning great intentions into huge headaches. You could pass on your stash to someone you love, but that only works if they share your passion.
 
That brings me to my conclusion about collecting. The experience can be exciting, educational, satisfying, challenging, and even profitable, but as with all the stuff we buy, you can’t take it with you. I recommend pre-planning what you will do when your collection reaches a certain size. To give you some ideas, here’s what I did with mine when they got unruly:
 
1. Knick knacks with roses on them. When they could no longer fit in a book case, I gave one rose-covered item to each person I love.
 
2. Rose petals. When they could no longer fit into two glass cases, I sprinkled them over a loved one’s grave.
 
3. Fortunes from fortune cookies. Once I surpassed 500 (I like Chinese food), I started giving them out to friends as parting gifts whenever they visited.
 
Now it’s your turn. What do you collect? Could you imagine yourself letting it go?

posted @ Tuesday, October 07, 2008 2:07 PM

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Left by Ellen at 10/12/2008 12:12 AM
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I have been colecting dolls for the longest time and everyone tells me I should stop. They take up a lot of space but I have stories to go with all of them and they've made me very happy. I will leave them to my franddaughter and hopefully she will appreciate them too!

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Left by John Trosko at 10/13/2008 11:57 PM
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What I collect is probably not important, but how I feel about them is very. A friend a few years ago broke something I valued greatly. I was so mad at them for a long time and I even "forbid" people to "touch my stuff. How crazy is that?

I realized at that point that I was placing more value on the things and was risking my friendship with the friend. So I equalized my thoughts. I try and use the things I enjoy all the time (books china, sports stuff) and don't worry (too much!) about them being broken. I've relaxed a little and now my life seems a little bit better now.

John aka OrganizingLA

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Left by Lori at 10/14/2008 9:40 AM
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Hi John,

Thanks for commenting. I can totally relate. It's amazing how much we attach to our stuff. I knew a mother once who had her kids donate some of their favorite toys every year. At first I thought it was cruel but then I realized what a beautiful lesson it is: love it then let it go.

Lori

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Left by Dimsie at 11/8/2008 5:54 PM
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I collect children's books and vintage watches, both of which give me enormous pleasure. I enjoy reading the books and love to collect sets or series of books by the same author. The Internet is a godsend for this particular hobby, of course.

As for the watches, that's a more recent hobby but one I really enjoy. Again, the Internet is a very useful tool as I can see so many beautiful watches all over the world. I'm reading as much as possible about old watches too, so that I can have some idea about the watches that catch my eye. I love their history and their beauty and just wish the watches of today were half as lovely.

I've made many friends from both my collecting hobbies and have every intention of staying a collector for the rest of my days. Goethe said 'Collectors are happy people' - now there speaks a man who knew what he was on about! I wonder if he collected anything himself?

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Left by Betty at 1/7/2009 11:17 AM
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Great article! I just started musing about the idea of 'collecting' after considering a big declutter of my life. I'm re-evaluating my motivation for buying things, wasting money unnecessarily, etc.
I don't have any collections at the moment but in my travels this year I bought a teapot in Morocco. My boyfriend and I love drinking tea, and especially love having fancy 'afternoon tea' in nice hotels, etc. So, I was thinking that this teapot should be the start of a future collection. Then all of a sudden, yesterday, it occured to me that there is no point! We would probably just end up with a lot of dusting to do, and finding more temptation to spend our money on teapots that wouldn't get used (not to mention it would become all-too-easy for friends to give us teapots as gifts, further adding to the clutter) -- it occured to me that it would make more sense to use that money on experiences - like afternoon tea in a nice place!

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Left by Lori at 1/8/2009 9:52 AM
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Hi Betty~

Thanks for commenting! I completely agree about spending money on experiences before things. Everything I buy eventually becomes old and worn, but experiences last forever in my memory.

Have a great day~
Lori

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Left by krishan at 2/16/2009 10:03 PM
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I want to be a friend who collectig money as a hobby in the world.I would like to invite evry one to join with me!

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Left by kriahan at 2/16/2009 10:22 PM
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Hi Dear friend!
I want to make friend who are collecting money as a hobby in the world! I have big collection old money! you can join me and share who would like to interest! I invite you.......! from Sri Lanka

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Left by meningitis at 6/29/2009 1:32 AM
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I want to be a fried who collecting money as a hobby in the world.I would like to invite every one to join with me!

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Left by Lorraine at 8/8/2009 2:54 PM
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Hi,
I collect soap for more than 15 years.I have near than 1000 soaps.It is not hotel soap bars,it is soap with forms like figurines soaps,animals soaps,flowers soaps,fruits soaps and many many more.I've just finish my website to show my soap
collection to the whole world.You can see all my
collection on my website.Collecting soaps is a real passion for me.Every where I go I am searching for soaps.When it's my birthday,mother day or Christmas,what do you thing that I ask for presents? SOAPS

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Left by lu at 10/16/2009 8:31 AM
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You can not buy jewelry stores at any jewelry stores except jewelry stores’s own, since they never sell outside their jewelry stores

I get this necklace as second-hand item at a tiffany jewellery store near my district, half price of new, I am happy.

You may take good care of you tiffany jewelry on sale at any jewelry stores, and it will cost much less than the official tiffany jewelry stores

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Left by tiffany jewellery at 11/4/2009 12:41 AM
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